Today, Huaqiao University, ; emotional communication center of instrumental rationality, but also to improve their moral quality. This is the students need in life, but also the need for students to become useful. Now, the whole society of people concerned about the material needs of the human spirit does not care about feelings, it is the lack of community. university education students into society as the last leg, should make up for this deficiency.
students how to conduct moral education, we need to explore new ways. on a large class, do report, is a way, but not essential. in front of college students study, life, love, employment difficulties, frustrated, confused occurs when it is when they most need care. We should listen to their tell, resolve their troubles, and give a correct outlook on life and values guidance. emotional communication in the new era for a new way of moral education.
emotional care, not just the class teacher, counselor to do, but need volunteers. promote teacher and student, between student and student affective exchange, mutual care, emotional care to create atmosphere. psychological counseling professionals can do, and one or two can not afford a psychiatrist is the task of emotional care. integrate various resources to care for students, this is my proposed assistance, mental distress were more in need of care. Currently, there are 16 million patients with serious mental illness in the rankings over the brain disease, cardiovascular, respiratory, and cancer and ranks the first place. 28.7 million people die of suicide each year, 200 million people suicide attempts, suicide 9 per 2 minutes, including 8 attempts. suicide aged 15 to 35 years to become the leading cause of death, the University of suicide continue to occur. in front of students in mental distress, we have patience to listen, compassion resolve and sincere comfort, it could remove his attitude was, on impulse, to avoid unfortunate incidents. through emotional communication, to help students correct their attitude towards life, and establish the concept of life, which is good enough for his life. When volunteer missionaries should learn to God does not exist, but there are so many people believe, only by the selfless and passionate missionary. We want to spread the correct life principles, it is necessary caring, passionate.
when an emotional exchange of volunteers, but also need good words. to inspire each other to tell, talking about their pain. Anyone who has emotional confusion, emotional confusion anyone need someone to troubleshoot, do not have concerns, do not have barriers. CCTV host Cui name have a depression, he needs someone to ride out the storm. of the parties to tell, certainly as far as possible the reasonableness of his standing to consider his position. Then, persuaded him to change a vision, to think from a different angle. In particular, When the other difficulties, setbacks and even disasters, should be good to enlighten. as large as the human, national, ethnic, small units, family and individual will come across seem to make life difficult for the Hom. we have to face difficulties and overcome difficulties difficult. Shandong, a year-old boy, had burned wreck shape. to save his parents also had a debt back. For the boys, this is really difficult to overcome the disaster. But, he not only read the primary, secondary, also admitted to the university. He believed that the fire burned his body, but can not afford to burn his wisdom; Although he did not normal appearance, but a normal brain; his grateful parents, the parents must not become burden, he wanted to repay their parents, will become a useful material. He used a positive attitude towards life, recognition of favorable factors to explore the adverse factors, out of the predicament of life. I'm in college and suffered insomnia can not sleep every night, and spiritual almost collapsed. I learned from Chairman Mao, a good thing become a bad thing under certain conditions, a variable under certain conditions, bad things are good. I had good health, to PubMed, ruining the body. then I must be good from the bad can be changed for the better The key is to create certain conditions. I'm trying to find ways to cure insomnia, taijiquan, cold baths. After one to two years of training, I sleep better. Now, I still maintain the habit of seasonal cold baths, body good.
emotional exchange when a volunteer, but more good deeds. good will from ourselves, from the start what they can do. We can not expect all volunteers is Lei Feng, everyone is Cong Fei However, we can start bit by bit. For the students, the following can also be a few try to do, that honor their parents, Gratitude; cherish, love life; polite, friendly people; diligently master method; care for the environment and save resources. a social worker, to be Him sincere, warm and calm.
In short, when one volunteers to be kind-hearted, good words, good deeds, we must have literacy Road, Guangzhou, but also a theoretical level, but also have charisma. do Moral education should be respected.
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emotional communication, to be a good a listener, to listen patiently to tell; also good to enlighten and spread new ideas. Students must face problems are the following:
(a) for whom learn how to learn to do anything
need motivation to learn even more so. Learning is not serious, not active, not active, is to learn good. Students for a Jinjiao Men, for whom there is a learning problem. learning for their own first. University of 4 years, is the most valuable time, will lay a person non-intellectual basis of intelligence and will determine the direction in life, influence the future of life. learning but also to their parents. in your body entrusted with the expectations of their parents, study hard, is the best reward to their parents. to learn but also to society as to the state and the people useful material. Therefore, to cherish the University of learning opportunities.
at the university level, as soon as possible to determine their goals in life. to keep thinking, where your interests, strengths, what, in what direction. With the objectives, learning there will be a driving force direction. you will face in the vast knowledge of trade-offs, in the disposable time have a choice, you will not feel empty, bored. my life is an article inspired me, influenced me. I read in Fudan University Department of Journalism, I saw an article, which means there is a good article does not ultimately depend on a deep and unique insights. This inspired me to write the article, of course, to the knowledge and writing, but more important to have thinking, and insights. So, I just try theory, learning works of Marx, and continue to write essays, full of submission, but were rejected. But the exercise of my thinking. After graduation, I engaged in theoretical and policy research. Each student should be according to their own situation, determine the direction and goals of a good life.
(b) of the self and others, there are two self-bias
treatment, in the past is no self, no I'm advocating. China's Buddhism, Confucianism advocates are not me, the party's education is to teach oneself. Modern civilization is certainly self-recognition of self. I think that this is a historical progress. but produce another tendency, that is, self-centered, self-interest or extreme self-interest doctrine. to their advantage is right, regardless of right or wrong, right and wrong, true and false, beauty and ugliness, good and evil, pragmatism, relativism, nihilism rampant, denying ethics.
to overcome self-centered to was reasonable, reasoning. from the horizontal view, you have a self, he also has self. Therefore, respect for self, they have to respect others. can not just their own, regardless of others. certainly self-recognition of self-contained with certain others, recognize others . From the Source of vertical, self from others. the self is born to parents, parents support, and parents education. so be grateful parents repay their parents. However, today's young people, college students, in the presence of their parents when requested , is pursuing Oriental philosophy, compiled a variety of reasons, making all kinds of excuses, obligations. and parents for their children, for fear that love is not enough, parents still make the post of the East, a packet in the end; but dare not ask their children filial piety, filial piety is not to educate their children, to develop children's self-centered and self-interest has not shirk its responsibility . birthday, is often a gift to the parents, do not play a phone call, write a letter grateful parents had you, brought you adult? your little effort, I do not know how happy the parents will! addition to parents, there others created you. all who helped you, do not forget. must remember that your self, not fall from the sky, and rely on, rely on many of the others. You only think you are, just want to to their advantage, all right? about the future and from the vertical, self-happiness, self-worth, sense of self are inseparable from others. a person's happiness comes from other people's true feelings, a person's value comes from other people's recognition a person's sense of dedication from others. people need most is the people. a selfish person who does not love others, must be unfortunate, unhappy, not happy.
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