Speaking of a gentleman, you can not think that is a gentleman wearing a suit and a tie, it is only skin deep, a real gentleman is embodied in the life held in words and deeds. Recruited the following information from the Internet, the so-called gentlemen, is the behavior civilized, polite conversation, warm and generous, great respect for Women and young and old, well bad habits, good personal relations. In fact, did not say, let's say that civilized behavior and respect for both ladies and some men in both China lack of respect really.
once on the McDonald's hamburger, a time when lunch time, business is very good, and out of people are doing it. generally will be labeled McDonald's push or pull the door, and into the push, pull out is, this is the time to avoid hitting the door who did it, and out in front of people who are mostly out, opened the door to readily put to, if someone connected to the back, does not automatically closed. But that time I saw a foreign youth, about three years old or so, he came in from the outside, but there are a lot of people behind him followed suit to come in, I saw him coming in, pulled door on one side, like other people come in and then let go outside.
and I see people have been kept outside the go inside, about a dozen people in it, most of these young men, without any the hands of a foreigner to take over the door, and no one say thank you to him, as if a foreigner is someone who helps you open the door of the guard in general, all of them an air of calm, the former owner to the purchase after the crowded bustle counters selling food for fear it will not be bought no later than a step on the food. Some people have even over the front row for a long time the team turned a blind eye on the others looked down upon, pushed to the front to come in shouting, Hey, Miss, to I'll have a Big Mac. And that foreigners have to wait until no one came out, then release his full ten minutes pulled the door to buy something over the line.
is actually a very small thing, but can reflect a humanistic self-cultivation, as I wrote, it, anyway, people do not row, row Why should I? But a lot of bad bad mistake on the people and not just line up the problem, when the Chinese people have been internationally recognized as the quality of the worst countries, our hearts are not also feel to anger? But more than anger, carefully look around a lot of little things, you will find that others did not slander the Chinese people, the man who disgraced the phenomenon did not occur in a small place, but can be seen everywhere in big cities to. What is civilization? referred to material and spiritual civilization, but it is regrettable that the spirit of civilization to be improved.
respect the ladies say it, one may help a woman in the street for the men's behavior is disdain bag, also that the car door men to women is contrived, and even men listen to women, then that loss of face. then men to respect women just to prove by them? Of course much more than that if a woman can not be from the heart, the same position on treatment, then no amount of effort to do, but also is a kind of performance. Chinese men always have a deep male chauvinist idea that men outside the women inside the family must be a model, OK, I have no comment on this, after all, a man Chi the Quartet, but how many men recognized a woman in the home is also very important? they see is their hard work in the business field, but neglected the home spotless clean, creamy and delicious food, children not of the academic progress These are women working in exchange for sacrifices, not because a woman incompetent, but the woman is willing to make efforts for the family.
But just look at what Chinese men do? they asked to return home, his wife to send replacement of the slippers, warm tea on the side, put delicious meals, but forgot to give her an affectionate hug, said sound hard, because they think all this is of course a woman should do. Chinese men identified by gentleman Judging from the money up to see who pay the most straightforward manner to most, but this grace is only maintained at marriage, eating in a restaurant, all trying to pay for most of the men in love, and let carefully checked before a woman pay for married couples. so-called grace of Chinese men after marriage will disappear. look at the husband and wife go out now, arm in arm to be mostly couples, married men and women, mostly men in one red in front of a woman holding a child in the back with, go out the door, cross the road, and never take care of the wife and kids around, always one step ahead run across the road, waving to you just to let you quickly to keep up. < br> gentlemanly respect for women is mainly reflected in the body, but also to the fair treatment of all women, but many men only looks beautiful women that will show the gentleman out of him. Perhaps some will say do not blame the Chinese men, Chinese men are not a gentleman, do not be so simply because childhood education, Chinese men have always accepted that sexist traditional education, so you rarely see in China, active men to women of advanced elevator scene, do not see a man respectful and courteous to women Lakaijumen scene. Of course a man may say, not the promotion of gender equality it? Why do this or that requires a man's? this course, this thing is voluntary, not forced anyone who no such sense of itself that should never be forced, otherwise how would the lack of a gentleman that Chinese men do? just because guys like and women care about, playing my heart do not know how to respect women.
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